Thank you Ditsy for your reply
his bedroom is overlooking the garden plenty of wild life I olnly hope the end is as peasfull as your freinds relitive.
Thank you Jonny,
If you need further help you might also find this site usfull
www.cancerbackup.org.uk
we are now 9 month into this disease
Thank you Ash, that is another good site, it has given me a bit more information.