Anyone here has a child or spouse with Epilepsy?

My 12 year old daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy about a year ago. She has generalized seizures sometimes at night, plus partial seizures during the day sometimes.
She doesn't have the epileptic scream to wake me, and i have slept through 2 of them.
How do I deal with this without wanting to make her sleep in my room and making her feel like a baby?
-She is on Trileptal, 2x a day.